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Now it’s time to take action and write your blessing! Download the PDF Guide and the Sample Blessings for everything you need to write your blessing. And feel free to use our Blessing Generator as well!

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We strongly encourage you to take the time to write a blessing for each person in your family. Then pick one person outside of your family who you know NEEDS the blessing. The reality is, they may never get it if you don’t step in and provide that gift for them.

The Blessing Generator

The Blessing Generator

A StrongFamilies Tool

Welcome to The Blessing Generator

This powerful tool is designed to help you create a custom, meaningful blessing for someone you love in just a few minutes!

Just follow the steps as The Blessing Generator walks you through the 5 Elements of The Blessing – and helps you tailor it to someone you love.

Let’s Get Started

First, please fill in a few details about the person you are going to bless.

Step 1

Now, let’s take a few seconds to get really specific about what makes so special. You can write your own ideas, or use some of the ones we’ve provided below.

📝 Important: Just pick one word or trait. This will be written directly into your blessing, for example: if you pick Courage, a sentence the generator may write is “You are filled with courage…” so keep it simple.
Need inspiration? Click on any of these traits:
📝 Important: Write as if you’re speaking directly to them (using “you” and “your”). Your words will appear exactly as written in your final blessing.
💡 Tip: Think of a specific moment when you witnessed this trait in action. Stories make blessings more meaningful!

Step 2: The Five Elements of The Blessing

Now, let’s walk through adding all 5 Elements of The Blessing. Don’t worry, we’ve provided easy one-click options to choose from or to use for ideas as you write your own.

1. Appropriate Meaningful Touch

Note: When you share this blessing with , consider including appropriate meaningful touch like a hug, a hand on their shoulder, or holding hands. And don’t forget that “bright eyes” translates as joy. So even if you are giving your blessing over FaceTime – adding joy to your eyes will speak volumes.

2. Spoken/Written Words
Need inspiration? Click to use one of these:
💡 Tip: Write as if you’re speaking directly to them – use “you” and “your” to make it personal.
3. Attaching High Value
Need inspiration? Click to use one of these:
💡 Tip: Focus on who they are, not just what they do. What about their character, spirit, or heart makes them valuable?
4. Picture a Special Future
Need inspiration? Click to use one of these:
💡 Tip: Paint a picture of their potential. What do you believe they’re capable of achieving?
5. Active Genuine Commitment
Need inspiration? Click to use one of these:
💡 Tip: Be specific about your commitment. What actions will you take to support them?

Last Step!

You’re almost done! These optional elements can make your blessing even more meaningful and personal.

📝 Important: Write as if you’re speaking directly to them (using “you” and “your”). Your words will appear exactly as written in your final blessing.
💡 Tip: This is optional, but personal memories or future hopes can make your blessing even more meaningful.

Your Personalized Blessing

Here is the beautiful blessing you’ve created. Take a moment to read through it, and know that these words have the power to transform and uplift.

Help Keep This Resource Free

Your blessing is complete! If this tool has been helpful to you, would you consider making a donation to help us keep this resource free for others?

You Did It!

Now all you need to do is share the blessing you've written. We hope this was a blessing to you and those you love.

Please share your blessing story with us. Your stories not only encourage our team, but encourage others as well. You can either tag us on social media or email Kari at [email protected] with your story.


Use the Code BLESSING10 to get 10% off your order as a special thank you!

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Its Time to write your blessing

now it's time to take action and write your blessing! Once you've selected the person yo uwant to bless, you need to:

1. pick one character trait: what is one thing that makes that person unique?
2. Share one way you've seen that charater trait used: how have you seen that charater trait make a difference in their life, or bless others?

Download the PDF Guide for everything you need to write your blessing (includes samples), and feel free to use our Blessing Generator as well.

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download sample blessings

Once You've Written YourBlessing...

You did it! now all you need to do is share the blessing. you've written. there are many ways you can do this. you can:

plan a special time or event - with just you - or family and friends as well

pull them aside in a quiet moment, or do a special blessing before bedtime

share it on a birthday, holiday, graduation, or other upcoming event

or find another time or way that works for you.

remember no matter when you choose to give your blessing, don't forget to share your genuine comittment by letting them know that they will ALWAYS have your blessing and the lord's too.

it's that simple!

Important: we strongly encourage you to take the time to write a blessing for each person in your family. Then pick one preosn outside of your family who you know NEEDS the blessing. the reality is, they may never get it if you don't step in and provide that gift for them.

You Did It!

Now all you need to do is share the blessing you've written. And check out some powerful next steps:

  1. Check out the resources, videos, and more on the next page. Use the code BLESSING10 to get 10% off your order.
  2. Please share your blessing story with us. Your stories not only encourage our team, but encourage others as well. You can either tag us on social media or email Kari at [email protected] with your story.

Finally, we strongly encourage you to take the time to write a blessing for each person in your family. Then pick one person outside of your family who you know NEEDS the blessing. The reality is, they may never get it if you don't step in and provide that gift for them.