Strengthen Your Marriage

Strengthen Your Marriage

You can build (and keep) a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage.

No matter what season your marriage is in (engaged, newly married, parenting littles, parenting teens, blending families, empty nesters, or decades into your relationship) having a strong marriage full of joy, unity, and emotional closeness isn’t just a dream, it’s possible.

During good times and challenging ones, with God’s help, you really can resolve conflict, feel more connected, play and laugh together, and heal past hurts.

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You can build (and keep) a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage.

During good times and challenging ones, with God’s help, you really can resolve conflict, feel more connected, play and laugh together, and heal past hurts.

A joyful couple embracing outdoors, capturing intimate and happy moments together in summer.

You can build (and keep) a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage.

No matter what season your marriage is in (engaged, newly married, parenting littles, parenting teens, blending families, empty nesters, or decades into your relationship) having a strong marriage full of joy, unity, and emotional closeness isn’t just a dream, it’s possible.

During good times and challenging ones, with God’s help, you really can resolve conflict, feel more connected, play and laugh together, and heal past hurts.

A joyful couple embracing outdoors, capturing intimate and happy moments together in summer.

You can build (and keep) a strong, connected, and joy-filled marriage.

During good times and challenging ones, with God’s help, you really can resolve conflict, feel more connected, play and laugh together, and heal past hurts.

A joyful couple embracing outdoors, capturing intimate and happy moments together in summer.

We Can Help You

Strengthen your marriage, value and understand your differences, and become a team allowing you to:

Stop the relational cycle (we call it the Mergenado) that drives you apart and keeps you stuck in frustration.

Value your differences, leading to deeper intimacy, joy, and friendship. 

Reconnect emotionally, and get on the same page as you rediscover the joy of being on the same team.

Heal past hurts and build a strong foundation for lasting love and partnership.

Build a clear plan to keep your marriage growing and on track for years to come.

What Is The Merge?

Have you ever had a moment in your marriage, or when you were dating, where you looked at the person next to you and thought, “Wow…we are really different.” If your answer is yes, then you’ve had a “Merge moment.”

The Merge is when those moments add up, and all of a sudden we realize that our differences are either going to tear us apart, or we need to find a way to come together and deal with them.

How Can It Help?

The great news is, The Merge, can actually become our secret weapon in becoming a team and taking on challenges together.

In fact, there are 5 small but powerful things we can do to make it through The Merge, and build a stronger marriage. We call them the 5 Merge Tools.

5 Crucial Merge Tools

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Stop The MergeNado

The Cycle keeping you stuck in the same argument again, and again…

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Make Mountains shrink

Really Walk through challenges together as a team in a way where you both feel supported and valued.

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Merge at the Speed of Joy

Why joy is a key part of a strong marriage & how to get it back if it’s gone.

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Spotlight & value your spouse’s strengthes

Don’t just see their strengths, but actually value them and appreciate your differences in your marraige.

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Learn to Untie The Knot & Repair

Deal with past and current hurts, and have a plan to deal with future issues as well.

Tools To Help You


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Take the

Merge For Marriage Challenge

Get started with a 5-part video challenge to help you start making The Merge in your own marriage.

Take The Merge For Marriage Quiz

Join A Merge For Marriage Group

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Take the

Animal Personality Test

And begin to understand and value your and your spouses strengths, and see your differences in a new way.

Strengthen Your Marriage With Coaching

Access our coaching services and get personalized marriage support for you and your spouse.

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