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What Is The Blessing?

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What Is The Blessing?

The Blessing is critical to building unconditional love, acceptance, and healthy attachment in your relationships. But, what is The Blessing?

Every time a Blessing was given in scripture, five things happened. We call these The 5 Elements of The Blessing.

there are 5 elements of The blessing

appropriate meaningful touch
spoken or written words
attaching high value
picture a speCIal future
Genuine Commitment


These 5 Elements of the Blessing are not only important biblically, but practically as well. In fact, clinical studies have shown that these 5 Elements are essential for building connection, attachment, love, and acceptance in our relationships. The Blessing really is the biblical building blocks of modern-day attachment theory.

We hope that as you understand more about what The Blessing is, and why it’s so important, you feel empowered and equipped to bless someone you love.

Before You Write Your Blessing…

Before you write your blessing, we strongly encourage you to watch the next video, especially if you didn’t grow up with The Blessing, or you are in a season where The Blessing seems out of reach.

No matter what your personal blessing journey is, we can all use encouragement and hope as we step into blessing others.

Keep In Mind…

Remember, we are here to help make giving The Blessing as easy as we can for you.

We have everything you need, including a step-by-step guideexamples, and even a digital Blessing Generator tool, to help you when it’s time to write out your blessing!

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